Monday, July 30, 2007

the world gets a little smaller


I was brave and went to a blog party on Saturday. I had never met any of these women, except on-line, and only a few of them at that. But I have been enjoying their blogs and thus their lives and I know that the only real way to make connections is to get outside the good old comfort zone. So I went. I met the fabulous Jill, who hosted the whole event. And I met Amy, who takes the most fantastic pictures. And as if I didn't spend enough time on the computer already, now I have a LONG list of new blogs to read written by the other great women I met Saturday night (Jana, Jenn, Jenny, Michelle, Collette, Jennifer, Crystalyn, Lori, Rachel, Claudia, to name a few).

I came away from the evening with these thoughts/confirmations:
-I am not an extrovert
-its hard to get out of your comfort zone
-you are blessed when you do
-blogging is fun
-blogging can change your life
-I want to develop life-long friendships and the only way to do that is to work at it
-I love the good mail concept and want to start sending it
-I want to start a book club
-I should throw more parties
-I want to be a happiness maker
-there are some amazingly funny, smart, talented, energetic, just plain fabulous women out there

Jill, thank you for putting this together. You were a delight to meet and watch interact with everybody. I am so sorry you ended up with a migraine. I look forward to many more get-togethers with you and the others I met, even if its only in cyberspace.

7 comments:

SladeMomma said...

How in the world do you have time to read so many blogs, no matter how wonderful and inspiring they are and speed reader though you may be?

Denise said...

Yes, it *is* hard to get out of your comfort zone and go to something like that! I'm glad you had a good time.

Anonymous said...

I was glad I meet you and got to visit with you. Love the photos of your children. I also did not know anyone when I went. Walked a way feeling alot like you did.

Anonymous said...

I seriously am sad I didn't make it over to the other side of the room a little more- I met you and remember the introductions, but wish I would have chatted a bit. Looking forward to getting to know you better now :)

Lucy said...

I meant to talk to you all night after you said where you were from. I actually went to lunch with Denise the day before the party and we were talking about how there was another blogger from the exact same place as her. Funny.

Although I didn't get to talk to you, I'm going to enjoy reading your blog:)

Jill said...

It is challenging to get out of comfort zones for sure, but I think blogging seriously helps make that possible. It's so much easier to meet people when you're already familiar with so much about them from their blogs. I feel like I can sit down with anybody I'm familiar with blogwise and chat away all day. It's liberating.

Crystalyn said...

i too am not and extrovert! i am an infp (i'm jealous of your 'j'). so glad i got a chance to meet you and chat for a bit. your pics are great! love your color. and that posing...well, that just rocks ( :